late bridal shower advice??? HELP!!!!?

My best friend got married on short notice this last New Years. I was the Maid of Honor. Her and I talked and decided that with only a few weeks till the wedding there wouldn’t be much time for a bridal shower and didn’t do one. I didn’t do one after, because as far as I knew, you don’t throw it after the wedding. Now, 8 months later, the moms have decided to throw a bridal shower. But now as the Maid of Honor I feel really guilty that they feel like they have to throw one becuase I didnt. They have already planned time date and place for the shower. I was going to call the moms and ask to help out but feel so bad. Any advise? Should I feel guilty since the bride and I had talked about this? Any advice on how to handle this situation? I just don’t know the ettiqute on weddings and showers at all. This was my first time being MOH or even going to a wedding.

They apparently didn’t consult an ettiquette book, because it is very uncalled for to throw a shower 8 months after a wedding. I’d call and offer my assistance, but nothing else. I wouldn’t want my name as a host of that shower.

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